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Talk about children's "crying".

The most important thing that happens when you meet a child before raising a baby is "crying", most afraid that the child is crying. And before they have their own children, the crying is really a noise. It's like scratching your heart and catching your lungs like nails. But after having a little joy, slowly adapted to the crying, and summed up many experiences in crying. The different crying of children represents different meanings. Some crying should respond immediately, while others cry to pretend to be calm. Today we will talk about "crying".


Yesterday I saw an article saying that a scientific research shows that the more intelligent a child is, the more he can cry. This topic shows that what a complex thing the child's crying is, and it even hangs on the question of intelligence. The so-called "cry" is that the child does not really want to cry, but through crying to achieve certain aspirations, once the appeal is successful, the crying will stop abruptly. Children who can make use of crying are really smart enough! But I think children will be "crying" this matter, we should not first think of the child's IQ improvement, but should reflect on our adults in the education process of negligence, why children will improve IQ learned to cry? Just imagine that if a child who has not yet learned to cry is thrown into a relative indifferent environment, the communication between children and adults is always neglected. Children can not exchange their responses to adults through language or actions. If this goes on, maybe every child will grow up in an adversity and become a child who learns to cry.


Therefore, it is necessary to study "crying" knowledge. As parents, we should understand every cry of children, and we should know what the correct response should be behind each crying. First of all, we need to know what kinds of children cry.


1. Severe crying caused by pain or fear.


Children inevitably encounter bumps and bumps in the process of growing up. Small arms and calves are tender and tender all over the place. They are much more sensitive than adults to pain. Sometimes when a child really falls badly, we even worry that the child will not cry because once the tears are not there, the collision is very serious. Therefore, this kind of crying is the most natural expression of children. Children never pretend to be pain. They really cry very hard.


Parents should respond to this kind of crying at the fastest speed, although they can not replace the pain of their children, at least they can feel comfort in their hearts. At this time, education should be affirmative but mild. It must be the parents' judgement of right and wrong. They must be resolute, correct and wrong. Although the child is physically sick at this time, it is also very anxious for parents, but it can not transmit the wrong outlook on life to the children. For example, "this desk is in the way." Otherwise, how could our baby bump into it? Beat it! Beat it! " And mild refers to the language of education should not be too strict, some parents will chase after children running after wrestling, said, "you see you fell!" I will not let you run, you must run! Not obedient every day! " At this point, the children actually understand the reason of their parents, but after all, the flesh is hurt. It is very grieving in their hearts. If the parents' severe criticism is added, I am afraid that the right reason is hard to digest. The best way is for parents to speak in a mild manner. "Look, I said," don't run, is it right? " The ground is not smooth. If you run too fast, it will be easy to wrestle. Next time we won't run away, OK?


2, crying for failure to achieve certain aspirations.


This kind of crying is most common in children. Children often use their crying to express their emotions because they can not get something or something they want. For example, when a supermarket meets a favorite food, she begged her mother to buy it home, and her mother disagreed and cried. For example, to go to the hospital for injection, because do not want to bear this kind of pain and refused to injections, refused to be fruitless when they cried. And when you ask parents for something, they don't get it. They cry when they still have no fruit. There are too many examples of such crying, which are most common in children's crying.


Parents must always be vigilant when facing this kind of crying, because once the treatment is not good, it is easy for the child to master the magic weapon of crying. When it is impossible to achieve the goal, it will be solved by crying. Finally, because the crying is too dark, parents can not cope with the compromise, and the purpose of the child is realized. Does this not fit the "fake cry" before the article? Children's IQ has improved, but this is not necessarily a good thing.


The correct practice is that parents should pay attention to education and pay close attention to their children's needs. When children are in need, they do not cry at the beginning. At this point, parents should respond even if they want to know whether they agree or not. Then carefully analyze the things that children need, if they can be realized, then we will help children achieve them immediately. If it is bad behavior, or can not let the children achieve things, give children reason. It is much easier for children to listen to reason without crying.


3, crying because of emotional loss.


This kind of crying is also quite common, for example, adults joking, suddenly grabbed something from the child. Didn't a famous photographer take pictures of a group of children crying? The formation of the photos was a sudden grab of the lollipop in the child's hands, and the photographer quickly pressed the image left behind the shutter. Or because of something bad and discouraged, the child will cry, for example, he used to play well with blocks, and suddenly cried because of total failure. All in all, this kind of crying is venting.


I want to say, in fact, not only children, but adults do not have emotional control time? I think everyone has had a sudden experience of crying. So if there's only occasional frustration, what's wrong? Let the children properly release their emotions, nothing bad, want to cry, cry for a while, and so on emotional release, and then find something to divert attention. Children occasionally release their emotions, not only do not develop bad temper, but also learn how to control emotions.


I didn't expect it to be so simple. In fact, there is still much to discuss about the crying of children. Let's leave aside any experts and scholars to study the crying dynamics of their babies, and they will also be able to sum up a lot of experience.


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